Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Hello, Russia!

HELLO FROM RUSSIA!!!

Chococat is having a blast!

So. Here we are. FINALLY in Russia! It's been almost a year since we first came here and met our son, Alexander. We saw him again for the first time since last November yesterday. He's so big and so different. He seems a lot more serious this time - last time, he would just laugh and play and he wasn't worried at all that we are strangers. This time, he is really scared of us and it takes a lot more effort for him to smile or laugh. I guess that's probably a good thing, since he's attached to his caregivers. It just means it will be harder for him when we take him from the orphanage. Poor thing. It breaks my heart when he cries!

But I'm getting ahead of myself! We came to Russia on Sunday, the 21st. We haven't even been here a week, but it feels like so much longer! And we still have 3 more weeks to go! UGH! We spent the first 3 days of our trip in Moscow. I really enjoyed our time there, actually. It was scary, but only until I left the hotel haha. Moscow is just like any other European city, really. There were many people who spoke English and I felt safe walking around, even at night! And we did a lot of walking around haha.

On our last night there, Regan and I walked to Red Square at midnight!

We had to do our medical evaluation in Moscow, and I was really nervous about it, but it ended up being just fine! We passed with no problems! Other than that, it kind of felt like a vacation haha. We could wander around and do whatever we wanted!

Now we're in Vladivostok and the vacation is definitely over. We got in yesterday at noon after flying all night and we went straight to the orphanage after dropping off our luggage at the hotel. We saw Alexander and I already talked about that a little bit. We saw him again this morning and we will see him one more time tomorrow before our court appointment.

Vladivostok is not like Moscow - it's not a tourist city, so no one speaks English. It also feels really run down and dirty by comparison. There are billboards and advertisements everywhere! There is also some kind of crazy road construction project that has been going on for the past 2 years, so all of the roads are torn up (really, there are hardly any paved roads!) and traffic is AWFUL! It is actually better now than it was last November when we were here because there is no snow haha. Thank goodness.

Well, I don't have much news because the biggest events are still to come! So this is all for today!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

I thought you were coming back!?

Yeah...so maybe I lied a little bit. I said I'd re-activate this blog, did a HUGE "what happened in the past year" update...and then disappeared again! Sorry about that!

I think instead of catching up again over the past month or so, I'm just going to write about what's going on right now and take it from there!

Right now...nothing is going on haha!

Well, we are still working on our Russian adoption. The most recent news on that front is that the judge who was supposed to set our court date decided to reject us instead. Our agency has been trying to get some more paperwork together to re-submit to the courts (hopefully in the next week or so) and we'll see where it goes from there. But right now, we're in limbo. Everything is uncertain. At this point, even after waiting for a year and a half, we could be told that we'll never be able to be Alexander's parents. That would be horrible and devastating and I try not to think about it. On the other hand, they could come back and say "oh this new paperwork is great! Come on over! You can have him now!" We just have no idea. It's hard because we really can't make any plans - we've actually been struggling with that since January, which is why we really haven't traveled much this year. It seems like we're always in this situation: "Well, we could be going to Russia in like 3 weeks...so we better not make any travel plans!" But then Russia never lets us come...so we just don't travel anywhere at all unless it's super close or, in the case of Tuscany earlier this year, super cheap even last minute. So yeah, that's where we stand with that business.

This coming weekend, we're driving down to Paris for JAPAN EXPO!! I'm super excited!! I haven't been to an anime convention since we moved here and my last one was Otakon 2009, so that was just about 2 years ago. That's...insane. This will be my 25th anime convention! I'd love to have a little party or celebrate that milestone...but it's just me and Regan. So I guess I'll wait and have a con-party for my 30th! Hopefully that will be a con in the states and I can be there with some friends and family. I'm really curious to see the difference between this con and the cons I've been to in the states. I won't be able to make any blanket statements about "European" cons in general until I go to a few more (I'd love to go to a German one and an English one before we move, but we'll see), but it will still be interesting! I've already noticed a few differences in how they run things just based on their website! I'm not cosplaying (so neither is Regan haha), but I am working on making some new clothes to wear. Just a couple of cute skirts - I'll be going for a "fairy kei" kind of vibe! Regan will be going with a "everyday clothes" kind of vibe haha.

In other news, I think I have a stress fracture in the top of my foot. It hurts pretty bad today, but usually it's just a dull ache when I bend my foot a certain way. It started a few weeks ago after a particularly hard run on the treadmill and has been sore ever since. I was worried it COULD be a stress fracture, so I haven't run in a few weeks. Yesterday I decided to just walk on the treadmill for a while, and today I'm feeling the effects. I think it's because I put the incline really high yesterday. I don't know what else could be the problem because I've been on my feet a lot lately and it hasn't caused any problems. Anyway, I hope I'm feeling better by this weekend. It would be a real bummer to have a hurt foot at Japan Expo.

And that's all the updates for now! I'll post a convention report after we get back from Japan Expo!

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

One Year Later...

I have officially neglected this blog. That's probably not a big deal...I don't think anyone read it anyway. But, just in case there is some interested person out there, I think I'll take it up again!

The first thing we need to do is catch up on a few things! Here is a quick re-cap of the major highlights of the last year!


June 10-12, 2010 - We took a trip to Gothenburg, Sweden! It was a super fun trip despite the dreary weather. Highlight of the trip: we found the most amazing candy store ever! The smell...it was...heavenly!

June 24-27, 2010 - Regan's work put together an amazing camping/white water rafting trip to Austria!! It was...mind blowing! Austria is amazing.

July 05, 2010 - we took our first trip to Bernkastel-Kues with the Ta's and Hooten's! We didn't stay long, but had some awesome pizza!

July 21, 2010 - For my 26th B-day, my wonderful husband surprised me with a quick trip over to Hombourg-Hout. We had quite the adventure trying to order dinner in French!

July 23-25, 2010 - As a joint celebration for my and Beth's b-day, we went camping GERMAN STYLE (meaning your tent is about 1/2 foot away from your neighbor haha).

July 31, 2010 - My friend Tina took Regan and I to Germany's largest waterfall! It was...not really all that large haha. We had a great time hiking around, though, and I had the best Doner Kebab ever!

August 6-11, 2010 - My favorite brother came to visit us and we took a trip to Poland!! It was amazing and so fun! We visited places from my brother's mission, ate so much amazing Polish food, and went swimming in the Baltic Sea!

August 13-17, 2010 - I went to Bath, UK with my friend Beth! I got to meet my hero, GARTH NIX and had a ton of Jane Austen related experiences! And we saw Stone Henge! It was such a great trip!

August 19-23, 2010 - My brother and his friends came back from Poland and we toured Bavaria! The boys had such lovely haircuts haha.

September 4, 2010 - We went back to Bernkastel-Kues with some friends for the wine fest! Of course, we didn't have any wine. I did, however, get a Hello Kitty balloon, some flashing bunny ears, and see an AMAZING fireworks display! Success!

October 14, 2010 - Regan had a lovely 33rd Birthday!

October 29-30, 2010 - For our 2 year anniversary, we took an over-night trip to Switzerland! We were able to visit the Bern temple, which was beautiful, and stay in the Jungrau area, which is also beautiful!

November 20, 2010 - We visited Bernkastel-Kues yet again for the Christmas market! I ate so much food!

November 27-December 03, 2010 - The biggest news of the past year was that Regan and I were able to visit Vladivostok, Russia and meet our SON! I am not allowed to post his picture until the adoption is final, but you can be assured that he is ADORABLE!

December 11, 2010 - We visited the Mannheim Christmas Market with my friend Tina, her boyfriend, and our friends the Ta's! Once again, tons of amazing food was consumed!

March 12, 2011 - A spring-time trip to Heidelberg! We hiked around and had some amazing asian food!

March 17-19, 2011 - We took a trip to Tuscany in Italy! The leaning tower of Pisa is really weird looking in person...

April 01, 2011 - We went with our friends the Ta's to Chochen castle! I'd love to go back when it's sunny and blooming. We chose a somewhat dreary day.

And there you have it! A brief re-cap!

Hopefully it won't be another year before I update this blog again! I'd like to get back into weekly updates, but we'll see.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Escape To Paris!

What a week it has been!! First of all, the weather has been crazy. Yesterday was particularly interesting. The sky would be bright blue with scattered clouds one second, then I'd turn back and it would be completely dark and pouring rain! For a minute, I thought I might be back in Ohio haha.

The day before yesterday, our friend Matt was able to stop by for the night. He was just passing through on his way down range for 6 months. Matt works for AFAA just like Regan, but he's also a member of the Air National Guard. We decided to take him to Landstuhl for some sight seeing. I really like Landstuhl! We ended up just going out for dinner, though. We went to a place called DaNico - it's a typical German/Italian blend restaurant (those are very popular around here). I felt bad, though. Before we went out to eat, Matt had mentioned that he didn't really like Schnitzel. Shocking, right?! Apparently, he had tried jagerschnitzel years before and hated it because it was covered in mushrooms. Like most people, he wasn't aware that there were so many different kinds of schnitzel! In any case, we told him we'd find a place that had some variety so that he wouldn't be forced into the schnitzel. Well, DaNico has variety, but somehow all 3 of us ended up with schnitzel! haha. Matt got pfefferschnitzel, which is pork schnitzel in a peppercorn sauce. It's fantastic, I tell you! AMAZING! He said it was much better than the jagerschnitzel, so I was happy for him haha. After that, we took him to Globus so that he could get some candy to send home to his kids. I like going to Globus. In all honesty, I just like going to German stores in general. It's fun to walk around and look at the German products. Is that weird? I hope not haha

Regan and Matt in front of our house. Love those yellow trash bags!

Yesterday we were finally able to have our home-visit with our social worker. Regan and I cleaned like crazy people all morning, and I'm not going to lie, the house looked great! I think the inspection part went well - the only comments he made were about how much space we had and how big our yard was, etc. And anytime we came upon something that I thought could be construed as a safety hazard, I pointed out how we planned to change it. One of the many adoption books I've been looking at said it was better to point it out and talk about plans to change it than to hope it wasn't noticed. After the initial walk-through, we sat and talked about the process for about 3 hours. He went over our questionnaire (the crazy long one we filled out about a month ago) and then we talked about different forms we're going to need to fill out with different agencies and about the trips to Russia, etc. I really enjoyed the visit, actually! He was so friendly and I got the impression that he liked us and all of our answers. YAY!

When he originally called to set up a time to come see us, I had invited him to dinner. He forgot about it, though, and I can't say I'm sorry for that. I had a bit of a mishap yesterday involving our slow cooker. To be honest, I really haven't used our slow cooker much. We've had it for over a year (we got it for our wedding), but I've only used it a handful of times, so I'm just not a slow cooker pro. Yesterday morning I was trying to think of something to make in the slow cooker so that I wouldn't have to think about making anything while the social worker was actually here. Somehow I figured that if he arrived at our house at 1 PM, that's when we'd have dinner. Of course, that's silly - we'd eat around 5. But in my confused mind, I picked a recipe that needed to be cooked on high for 3-5 hours. Since our slow cooker is a 110 volt appliance, I had to bust out the extremely heavy and annoying converter. I put all of the food in the slow cooker, turned it on, and went about my cleaning. I came back an hour later to check on it, only to find out that the slow cooker's plug had fallen out of the converter. Great. As I plugged it back in, it occurred to me that I'd miscalculated the time for dinner, so I set the slow cooker to low and hoped for the best. 2 hours later, I came back to check on it and discovered that it was still soup and not a casserole at all! I decided to throw caution to the wind and set it to high. The plan was to turn it back to low around 4 PM so that it wouldn't over cook, but still be warm at 5 PM. Well, while we were with the social worker, I forgot about it and at around 4:45 I went to check on it only to find an over-cooked, mushy mess. I made the decision not to mention that we'd invited him to stay for dinner, since he hadn't brought it up yet, and hope that he forgot. Forget he did and I was very grateful! Regan and I ate the mush, but it was...yeah. The flavor was ok, but the texture was something like oatmeal. And oatmeal shouldn't taste like chicken, garlic, and broccoli *shudder*

So last weekend, Regan and I took our first trip to PARIS!! Ah it was so fun. I can't wait to go back again! There is so much to do and so much to see! We hit a few of the major sights, but 2 days (more like 24 hours) is not enough time to spend in Paris.

Paris! C'est magnifique!

We left our house around 7:30 AM, but after getting gas and driving about an hour down the road, we realized we forgot our passports. So we drove all the way home an got them. Regan and I were both very irritated by this set back, but after a little while on the road the excitement of going to Paris overcame our annoyance at our late start. We decided to take the long way to Paris and avoid the toll roads - this saved us close to 90$, but bumped our travel time up to 6 hours one way! We got to Paris around 4:30 PM. I had a head ache and Regan was really tired, so we took a nap in our hotel before hitting the town. We decided to go to the Louvre first, so that we could pick up our museum pass. We hopped on a train and got off at a stop that is pretty much directly under the Louvre. Very convenient! The Paris train system is pretty easy to navigate, I found. It's no different than any other major city's system I've been through - of course, we didn't try the RER trains, which I hear can be more confusing.

Anyway! The Louvre!!

This was taken just outside of the train station. We hadn't even figured out where to get our tickets yet haha

The Louvre is HUGE! I didn't realize how big it was at all. We spent 2 hours there, and barely scratched the surface. I think it would be easy to spend an entire day wandering the halls.

The Oath of the Horatii by Jaques-Louis David! In recent years, this has become my favorite painting. Regan found it for me and I was VERY happy to take my picture with it!

The Venus De Milo! When I saw it, all I could think about was Disney's Hercules. Is that lame of me?? haha

I set our camera up on a small light post to take this picture. Next time, I will remember the tripod! I love this shot, though. I like the shadows and the blurred people and of course, the Louvre looks awesome!

We saw so many famous paintings there, it was kind of surreal. In fact, most of what we did in Paris was kind of surreal. It's so strange to visit a place that you've heard about your whole life. But most of our time here in Germany has felt like that.

After the Louvre, we decided to be bold and walk to the Eiffel tower. From where we were, it didn't look too far away! It was about 9 PM by this point, so it was dark and we didn't meet very many other people on our way. Probably because NORMAL people would have taken the train haha. The closer we got the Eiffel tower, the more people we saw, though. It took us an entire hour to walk there. It was fun, though! And since we were mostly alone, we were able to goof around talk as loud as we wanted to haha. When we got to the tower, it was 10 PM so they had the fun flashing lights going! It was so beautiful. Really. REALLY beautiful. There were still a lot of people around, too.

We took about 100 pictures, but I'm only posting one! Suckers!

By the time we got back to our hotel, it was after 11 PM and we were both exhausted. Regan stayed up to watch the Ohio State game anyway, though! Dedicated fan! The next morning, we had Special K Blueberry for breakfast! Our hotel had a mini-kitchen, so we were able to save a lot of money by bringing in our own food. In fact, the only food we bought in Paris was a pair of Crepes! After breakfast, we decided to head for the Arc de Triomphe!

I was shocked at how huge it was! I mean, I knew it was big...but it was REALLY big!

We got there early enough that the crowds weren't too bad. With the help of our museum pass, we were able to cut the ticket line and head right up the stairs! There were a lot of stairs, too. There were also two mini-museums inside, which I didn't know about. We were a little anxious for the view from the roof, though, so we didn't spend much time inside.

TA DA!! That's a pretty fantastic view!

The Eiffel Tower! I think this shot makes it look kind of small, though...

Those weird posts were all around the roof (so people won't fall, I suppose). They made it hard to get cool shots, though. Oh well.

After we finished at the Arc, we decided to once again, walk to the Eiffel Tower. From the Arc it was only about 30 minutes, though. Not too bad! We bought our Crepes at this time - just thinking about them again is making me hungry. They were SO yummy!

We came at it from the other side, so we were able to take a lot more photos. Plus, the clouds were clearing a bit! Very nice!

I'm torn between this picture, and the first one I posted - I don't know which one I like more! They're both so pretty!

Regan brought his Buckeye gnome and insisted on taking it's picture everywhere haha! This was my favorite shot we took of him.

After re-visiting the Eiffel Tower, we decided to head over the Les Invalides - it's a huge complex consisting of a military museum, Napoleon's tomb, and some other stuff haha. Out of all the places we saw, this is the one I regret not spending more time at the most. The military museum was SO COOL but we were only there for about 45 mins!

This is the center front. Napoleon's tomb is right inside those center double doors.

This is the dome directly above Napoleon's tomb! VERY PRETTY, yes?

The reason we couldn't spend longer there was because we had to hurry over to Notre Dame at 2:30 PM for the guided tour in English! For some reason, I thought Notre Dame was smaller than it was...it was not small at all, actually!

AAAH so famous! It's fun to see famous things, I think. The square was crowded and the line to get into the cathedral was VERY long, but moved quickly.

Whenever someone asks me to take their picture in front of something, I always try to do a really good job. It seems like when we ask people to take our picture in front of something, it's always crooked, not centered, or (as is the case here) they cut the top off! *sigh* oh well.

It's funny with cathedrals...I always just think about their facades and forget that they're really long, too! Am I the only one that does that? So I'm always surprised when we walk around the side of a cathedral. You'd think I'd learn haha.
ps. how many people can you spot having their picture taken with Notre Dame!

After touring Notre Dame, we set out for the Pantheon! Very, very cool place. I wasn't really aware of its existence before doing research for our trip to Paris, but I think it's definitely worth a visit! Many famous and important French citizens are buried there - including Victor Hugo, whose tomb we were able to see.

One of the MANY sculptures inside with one of the MANY paintings behind it. That place was just crawling in cool art.

This is the view down the street in front of the Pantheon. I just thought it looked very Parisian (especially with the Eiffel tower in the distance).

And here we are in front of the Pantheon!

After that, it was like 5 PM and we had to hit the road. I'm pleased with the number of things we were able to see in such a short amount of time, but we will DEFINITELY be going back. I can't wait to take my family there next summer! On the way home, we listed to "Into the Wild" on CD - I thought it was a very interesting book (I wasn't familiar with the story at all), but it made me really angry.

Anyway, that was our last big adventure for a while. Regan will be in Iraq soon, so I guess he'll be having an adventure! But I'll be here, looking for work and sticking with the usual daily grind.

Monday, March 22, 2010

I think Spring has sprung!

The weather was so amazing all last week! Then, all weekend it rained. BOO!! But I've seen lots of blue sky today, despite the clouds. At least it's not raining.

So last Thursday, we got our adoption contract in the mail. We didn't waste any time and filled it out that night, then Friday morning I met Regan down at Ramstein and we had it notorized and mailed off! YAY! I forgot to get delivery confirmation, though. I hope it gets there OK. I was just so excited to mail it that I guess my mind left me for a bit haha. We're right on track with our goal to have our home study submitted before Regan's little trip to Iraq next month. We haven't had much luck getting a hold of our social worker, though - we really want to schedule our home inspection!

On Saturday night, Quoc and Beth came over and we ate breakfast for dinner! Breakfast food is the best food, I swear. We had blueberry pancakes, potato pancakes, bacon, and fried eggs! Then we played pass the pigs, which for some reason felt kind of boring. My family always had so much fun playing that game in the past, so I really don't know why it was so lame on Saturday. So after 2 games, we switched over to Yahtzee, which is our usual game of choice. We played until about 11:30 PM, at which point poor Beth was about to pass out so they went home! Regan wanted to Quoc to stay and watch Basketball all night (I have no idea why - both of their brackets are bust!) but Quoc was a good husband and left with Beth haha. I'm glad we have them to hang out with. I'm not usually an especially social person, but it's nice to have another young, childless couple to spend weekends with!

This weekend, Regan and I are going to PARIS, FRANCE!!! I'm so excited!!! Besides the Eiffel Tower, The Louvre, The Arch De Triumph, and all of the other things Paris is famous for, I'm really excited to hit the Sanrio store and the Angelic Pretty store! I hope we get a chance to go to both of them! We're only staying for 2 days, though, so if we don't get to, there's always next time. Paris is only a 4 hour drive, after all.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Cats on a 'sill!

Today was so blustery and cold, but my kitty cats just slept on the warm windowsill and it made me feel warmer just looking at them! I need some kind of heated surface to take naps on.

The home study stuff is coming along. Right now we're waiting to hear back about when our home inspection will be. I hope we have at least a week to get ready - I have a lot of stuff I want to get done around here before the inspection. We really need some new shelves for the bathrooms...and my sewing room is a complete disaster area!

So...I'm going to admit to something here. Regan has horrible taste in entertainment sometimes. Right now...he's watching...WWE Smackdown *hangs head in shame* please don't judge us! It started out with Regan claiming he enjoyed it for purely nostalgic reasons...but then he just kept watching! And...do I enjoy it?! Don't answer that...

Regan and I had a really good weekend! On Friday, we went to the Temple and it was wonderful, as always. Saturday morning I had a writing seminar, and then we tried to go see "Alice In Wonderland" but it was sold out. BOO! So we ate at Captain D's - we both got sick from it. Never, ever again. I love hush puppies, though...I'll just have to learn how to make them myself.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Let's Do It!

Hiya! The Brant house is all abuzz! After careful consideration, Regan and I have decided that instead of starting the process for our Russian adoption in January of 2011, we will instead be starting it NOW! This does, of course, raise some minor issues, not least of which will be coming up with the cash. I'm trying to get some things made that I can sell on Etsy to raise money, and Regan and I have been throwing around some other fundraising activities. I'll keep you posted (said as if anyone reads this haha).

Right now we're working on the home study! So far, we've got the 30+ page initial paperwork filled out (still needs a final run-through, though). It only took us 3-4 days! Regan worked on it pretty much non-stop over the weekend. He's so good! We're going to try to get our physicals done this week, and then it's just a matter of gathering a TON of other paperwork and documents, getting some background checks done, and having a home inspection. Hopefully we'll be pretty much done by the end of this month! That would be great.

Our goal is to have the child by the end of this year. That's pretty ambitious, though. Everything would have to go like clockwork...and since this is an adoption...yeah. We'll see. But that's our goal anyway!

We're so excited!!! I've already been thinking about all of the toys and clothes I want to make for the baby - when I say baby, I mean *around 12-14 month old* because that's how old the children coming out of Russia are on average. It's VERY rare to get a child less than a year old. That's fine with us, though! I also daydream about taking family photos when we're on vacation, reading books with them, playing at the park, going to the zoo, making crafts together...aah I'm so excited!!!

Last week I finished working at the CDC. I just hated it and couldn't take it anymore...so I'm back on the job hunt! I've put in some applications already, so hopefully by the end of the month I'll be working at a new job. Without a little more money coming in, Regan and I won't be able to have any kind of luxury or fun until we've paid for the adoption - so yeah, I want a job haha.